Contd.

Adding to my observations about kids, My Bhanji loves to play with her mother and her 2^nd most favorite company is a 2 year old boy who lives in neighborhood. Now this is funniest thing I consider in the kid. They at this age have good understanding of suitable company for them. At the same time they do not share their toys, this is quite funny.

This is quite a general insecurity of kids, their toys. I have no idea how this arises in a kid.

But I m sure this has something to do with the feeling of love possessed by them. They I guess do not want to share the love they have been rewarded in form of Toys.

You mite have seen inclination of being photographed. What about a child’s interest in being photographed? I have no idea about other kids but my Bhanji try and makes various expressions on her face, and very eager to look the taken picture immediately.

Interest in chocolates and ice-cream is no exception in kids! And same enthusiasm holds when it comes to cartoon or similar entertaining stuff. Have you seen Vodafone zoo-zoo advertise lately? The kids love them!

Love, ‘No Love’, and 2 year old kid.

Hey friends these days I’m having great fun. The fun will remain till my 2 yr old Bhanji will be spending her time here at my place. Playing games, listening to music , going on outing and eating may be a stress buster adding to that I have realized that Playing with small kids can take you to state of joy.

No one would want to get into the logic of how a 2 year child can make you fill with joy.

But still if we look from child’s perspective, the world to them is nothing but her mother, father other family members. They have no idea about the universe around.

Love and ‘No love’ is what I want to tell you. What I observed in a very small kid (my bhanji) is that they posses themselves with 2 types of feelings one is LOVE and rest of the feelings can categorized as ‘No love’.

The Mother, source of unconditional love for the child is all what a child wants. I think because it’s in them, the feeling of LOVE. That’s what they find in their mother.

Let’s say if due to some bad mood the mother scolds the very small child, child won’t be able to recognize the feeling and immediately will show the outcry.

The feeling of ‘No love’ can take variety of forms like crying, fear, anger in the child.

And see the magic of love, whatever a mother will tell, the child will follow.

The smarty kid gets convinced only by those from whom it derives love.

Thanks for reading. Will complete the article as soon as I make more Observations.

©Abhishek Paliwal

By SwamiVivekanand

When I Asked God for Strength
He Gave Me Difficult Situations to Face

When I Asked God for Brain & Brown
He Gave Me Puzzles in Life to Solve

When I Asked God for Happiness
He Showed Me Some Unhappy People

When I Asked God for Wealth
He Showed Me How to Work Hard

When I Asked God for Favors
He Showed Me Opportunities to Work Hard

When I Asked God for Peace
He Showed Me How to Help Others

God Gave Me Nothing I Wanted
He Gave Me Everything I Needed

-Swami Vivekananda

So never feel bad for what GOD has given us...

He knows every thing...

Poem by bachchan

लहरों से डर कर नौका पार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती।

नन्हीं चींटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है,
चढ़ती दीवारों पर, सौ बार फिसलती है।
मन का विश्वास रगों में साहस भरता है,
चढ़कर गिरना, गिरकर चढ़ना न अखरता है।
आख़िर उसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती।

डुबकियां सिंधु में गोताखोर लगाता है,
जा जा कर खाली हाथ लौटकर आता है।
मिलते नहीं सहज ही मोती गहरे पानी में,
बढ़ता दुगना उत्साह इसी हैरानी में।
मुट्ठी उसकी खाली हर बार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती।

असफलता एक चुनौती है, इसे स्वीकार करो,
क्या कमी रह गई, देखो और सुधार करो।
जब तक न सफल हो, नींद चैन को त्यागो तुम,
संघर्ष का मैदान छोड़ कर मत भागो तुम।
कुछ किये बिना ही जय जय कार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती।