Hey friends these days I’m having great fun. The fun will remain till my 2 yr old Bhanji will be spending her time here at my place. Playing games, listening to music , going on outing and eating may be a stress buster adding to that I have realized that Playing with small kids can take you to state of joy.
No one would want to get into the logic of how a 2 year child can make you fill with joy.
But still if we look from child’s perspective, the world to them is nothing but her mother, father other family members. They have no idea about the universe around.
Love and ‘No love’ is what I want to tell you. What I observed in a very small kid (my bhanji) is that they posses themselves with 2 types of feelings one is LOVE and rest of the feelings can categorized as ‘No love’.
The Mother, source of unconditional love for the child is all what a child wants. I think because it’s in them, the feeling of LOVE. That’s what they find in their mother.
Let’s say if due to some bad mood the mother scolds the very small child, child won’t be able to recognize the feeling and immediately will show the outcry.
The feeling of ‘No love’ can take variety of forms like crying, fear, anger in the child.
And see the magic of love, whatever a mother will tell, the child will follow.
The smarty kid gets convinced only by those from whom it derives love.
Thanks for reading. Will complete the article as soon as I make more Observations.
©Abhishek Paliwal
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